Sunday, October 2, 2011

Focus on the Family Community: Relationships and Marriage ...

I've read so many sad stories and the one thing they all have in comman is, the need and desire for a change. So, where do we start ? I think it has to start first with ourselves. We'll never be able to change someone else. I believe we can't even change ourselves with out Gods help. I also believe one of the biggest lies satan gets us to believe is , if my spouse would do this or that , we wouldn't be having these problems. That is a lie! With this lie he can keep us from the one thing that we do have control over and that is ourself.

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With that said, if we are living in what seems to be an unbearable situation and we need a change, maybe the best time is NOW and the best place is ME. Ask God to show you, your true self. The you He see's. Ask Him to show you what He wants to change in you. You have nothing to loose and everything to gain. First thing you will get is , time with God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit. The? Holy Spirit needs to be your best friend. He is God living in you. That is when real change starts.

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The more time we put into our relationship with the Trinity, the better all our relationships will be. When we let God in to show us His love , we start to? radiate a peace and a warmth that draws people to us, instead of pushing them away, like with our old selves. The truth is freeing, and the truth is, that change starts with ME. I want Me to be , the Me God created Me to be.

God knew each and every one of us before the foundation of the earth. He designed everyone for His purpose. He uses things in our lives to mold us into who he created us to be. We let satan us them to keep us from knowing God fully. With out knowing God fully, we can not become fully who God created us to be.

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For me personally, my situation didn't start changing until I realized I needed a change of heart. I justified myself with believing that I was just trying to help. Help me, if my husband ( or who ever I want to change )? would just be the Godly person that he was called to be, we wouldn't be having these problems. I was part of the problem. Honestly, my situation hasn't changed much, but I am much happier. When I let God love me, I realized that I didn't need my husband to change in order for me to be happy. I needed God to be happy.

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I hope this will help someone find the love that they are so desperately seeking. You will seek it, until you let God love you. He will love you PERFECTLY.

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Here's love to you all,

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GodHelpUsAll

Source: http://www.focusonlinecommunities.com/thread/22732

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